SPIRITUALITY & LOVE
LIFE IS COMPLICATED
Many complex feelings can arise during this important time. Things can be even more difficult if you are hearing mixed messages about religion, God, or spirituality that conflict with your own personal situation or views. We encourage you to spend time with healthy emotions, and to remember that the core message of all spirituality - is love.
All Religions Point to LOVE: Some women express private concerns about being estranged from their religion, from God, or fear of eternal damnation. Take heart before you let these fears inside. While all religions vary, all of them also center around love, compassion, and forgiveness.
Personal Judgment: Do not accept judgment or criticism from someone you do not admire, or who does not have a life you want to emulate. Read that again. Messages of damnation are a simple psychological tool meant to control, and can simply be discarded with yesterdays newspaper. Only you are properly qualified to make decisions about your life.
God Embraces Personal Agency: God has already granted you the gift of autonomy. From the food you eat to the relationships you allow - you have the ability to weigh your circumstances, values, and beliefs as you consider the option of abortion, and God understands the complexities you face. From a moral and religious standpoint, it is comforting to know that you possess the innate capacity to make choices about your own life.
God's Compassion and Unconditional Love: Throughout sacred texts, God's compassion and boundless love for humanity shine through. It is reassuring to remember that God's love goes far beyond your individual situation and circumstances. In times of unintended pregnancy, God's compassion extends to all of your emotions, your physical well-being, and the unique challenges you may encounter. You are seen, understood, and supported through God's love and understanding.
Your well-being matters deeply to God. In circumstances where an unintended pregnancy poses significant risks to your physical, mental, or emotional health, it is reassuring to know that God values your existing life. God supports your decision to prioritize your health and future. Choosing abortion in such cases demonstrates a commitment to your overall well-being and is an expression of self-care.
Embracing Forgiveness and Healing: God's love is intertwined with forgiveness and the opportunity for healing. If you find yourself wrestling with guilt or remorse surrounding the decision to have an abortion, remember that God's compassion knows no bounds. God offers forgiveness and welcomes you with open arms, ready to guide you towards healing and restoration. Trust in the power of God's mercy to provide comfort and solace during this challenging time.
Empowerment and a Path Forward: You possess strength and resilience. By recognizing the complexities of your circumstances and the potential challenges of parenthood, you are making a decision that honors your life's path. Trust that God supports your choice to embrace your personal journey, which may involve pursuing education, career aspirations, or fostering healthier relationships. By making choices that align with your unique circumstances, you empower yourself to create a future filled with purpose and fulfillment.
We hope this helps to provide comfort and understanding, recognizing the diversity of beliefs and interpretations within religious and moral frameworks. May you find peace, solace, and strength as you navigate this decision with the knowledge that you are not alone, and your choices are seen, understood, forgiven, and empowered by a loving and compassionate God.
Supportive churches across the world may be familiar with the letter called "Sacred Grace: A Letter of God's Infinite Love". Written from the perspective of God, this letter demonstrates authentic religious principles of compassion, love, and empowerment for women facing a difficult time.
Early distributors of this letter did not aim to inflict judgment, or change women's minds, but rather came from an approach of love, and met women exactly where they were. Several similar versions of this letter exist, with the below the most widely distributed.
Sacred Grace: A Letter of God's Infinite Love
My beloved child,
I am here, with you, in the quiet moments when your heart aches and your mind swirls with uncertainty. I see the tears that fall when you wrestle with the weight of this decision. But please know that in the depths of your vulnerability, you are cherished, seen, and heard.
You are not alone in this journey. I am here, intimately acquainted with the depths of your soul. I know the countless battles you have fought, the triumphs and the setbacks. I am proud of you, my precious one, for the strength you have shown in navigating the twists and turns of life.
In the face of difficult choices, it is natural to seek solace and guidance. Rest assured, dear one, that you are loved unconditionally, regardless of the path you choose. My love for you knows no bounds, for it transcends all human limitations. It is a love that embraces you in your entirety and cradles you in a warmth that no earthly embrace can match.
I understand that the weight of external opinions can be burdensome. The whispers of judgment and the echoes of condemnation may haunt your thoughts. But know this, my child: those who seek to shame or coerce you are not speaking from a place of love. Their words are not a reflection of your worth or your relationship with me, only I know the heart. You are my beloved, and I trust your decisions.
Within you lies the power of choice, a sacred gift to be used with discernment. You alone possess the ability to understand what is best for your own life, for your dreams, and for your future. Trust in the wisdom that I have placed within you. Listen to the gentle whispers of your heart, for they carry the truth of your unique journey.
Do not burden yourself with explanations or apologies. You owe no one a justification for the choices you make. The path you tread is yours alone, guided by the compass of your own conscience. Let not the weight of societal expectations suffocate your spirit. Instead, breathe freely, and honor the voice that arises from within, for it is your essence speaking to you.
I desire nothing more than to see you flourish, to witness the radiance of your spirit as it soars. Your well-being, both physical and emotional, is of utmost importance to me. Should the circumstances of an unplanned pregnancy pose risks to your health or happiness, remember I gave you the power to prioritize your own well-being, so do it without apology.
As you move forward, my love will be your beacon, guiding you through the darkest of nights. Should you ever stumble or find yourself in the grip of guilt or regret, know that my forgiveness is boundless. I hold no grudges, my child, for I see the beauty that lies within you. Release the heavy burdens of guilt, forgive yourself, and embrace the healing that awaits you.
You are resilient, my dear one. You have faced challenges before and emerged stronger, wiser, and more compassionate. This decision you make now is an act of courage, of taking control of your life and shaping a future that aligns with your dreams. I stand beside you, your unwavering advocate, as you embrace the path that beckons you.
In your freedom, my child, lies joy. Embrace the possibilities that lie before you, for you have the right to celebrate your choices and find happiness in the life you create. Shed the cloak of shame that others may attempt to drape over you, for it is not your burden to bear. Instead, revel in the beauty of your autonomy, knowing that you are loved and supported unconditionally.
As you navigate these waters, know that many others understand the depth of your experience. Let go of judgment, and trust that no choice will separate you from my love, and nothing you can do will ever make me love you less. Reach out for comfort and find peace, freedom and joy, in the life I have waiting for you ahead.
In Everlasting Love,
Your God
